25+ Best Man Speech Examples

Funny & Lighthearted

“Good evening, everyone. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], the best man — which, let’s be honest, is a title I take way too seriously. I’ve known [Groom] since we were kids, and I can confirm that he’s always been a loyal friend, terrible dancer, and completely out of his league with [Bride]. But somehow, he convinced her anyway. Let’s raise a glass to love, luck, and [Bride] not figuring it out too soon. Cheers!”

Short & Sweet

“Hi everyone, I’m [Your Name], and I’m honored to stand here today. [Groom] is one of the kindest, most genuine people I’ve ever met, and today he married someone who makes him even better. [Bride], thank you for loving him the way you do. Let’s toast to a life full of laughter, patience, and late-night snacks. To [Bride] and [Groom]!”

Sentimental & Heartfelt

“Ladies and gentlemen, I’ve watched [Groom] grow into the man he is today, and I’ve never seen him more himself than when he’s with [Bride]. There’s a peace, a steadiness, and a joy she brings out in him. That’s love. That’s marriage. And that’s why we’re all here. To the happy couple — may today be the worst day of the rest of your lives.”

Brotherly (if you’re the groom’s brother)

“I’ve known [Groom] my entire life — literally — and I can say with confidence that today he made the best decision of it. [Bride], welcome to the family. You somehow manage to bring out the best in my brother, which is no small task. Let’s raise a glass to years of laughter, adventure, and sibling group texts you’ll regret joining.”

Chill & Cool

“Alright, I’ll keep this short so we can all get to the part with dancing and cake. [Groom] — you’ve been like a brother to me. And now, [Bride], you’ve somehow made him a better version of himself, which I didn’t think was possible. You two are perfect together. Here’s to love, good times, and never going to bed angry — unless you’re hangry. Then just order takeout and talk it out. Cheers.”

Funny & Charming

Good evening, everyone!

For those who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], the best man, a role I proudly accepted because I thought it involved giving one speech and drinking for free. Turns out, I was right — so here we are.

I’ve known [Groom] for years. We’ve done everything together — school, road trips, terrible fantasy football trades. Through it all, he’s always been the same: loyal, stubborn, and somehow always five minutes late.

Then along came [Bride]. And something changed. He started being on time. He started ironing his shirts. He started…caring about throw pillows. That’s when I knew it was serious.

In all seriousness, I’ve never seen him happier. [Bride], thank you for being his person. You bring out the best in him. And you somehow make him tolerable on Mondays, which we all thought was impossible.

Let’s raise a glass — to love, to laughter, and to never forgetting who’s in charge: the one with the better playlist and the joint Netflix password. Cheers!

Sentimental & Heartfelt

Hi everyone,

I’m [Your Name], and I’ve had the honor of calling [Groom] one of my closest friends for over [X] years.

From late nights figuring out life to early mornings recovering from poor choices, he’s been the kind of friend you can count on — steady, funny, a little too into spreadsheets, but always there.

And then came [Bride]. The first time he talked about her, he lit up. You know that look people get when they’ve found the right one? Yeah — he had that. Suddenly, his stories started with “We” instead of “I.” And that’s how I knew — this wasn’t a fling. This was it.

Watching the two of you together makes love look simple — not easy, but simple. Honest, warm, real. It gives the rest of us something to believe in.

So here’s to your next chapter — may it be full of late-night talks, lazy Sunday mornings, and a lifetime of choosing each other. Always.

To [Bride] and [Groom]!

Mixed — Lighthearted with a Touch of Sentiment

Ladies and gentlemen, family and friends,

I’ll keep this short, because the open bar has already opened and I know my limits.

I’m [Your Name], and I’ve known [Groom] since college. Back then, he had two goals: never miss happy hour, and never settle down. We see how that worked out.

When [Bride] entered his life, things changed — for the better. He became more thoughtful, more grounded, and — shockingly — started eating vegetables. I knew she was the one.

[Bride], thank you for loving him, for laughing at his bad jokes, and for being the calm to his chaos. You fit him. Not just like a puzzle piece, but like the final one — the one that makes the whole picture make sense.

Let’s raise our glasses — to love that feels like home, and a marriage built on friendship, humor, and always splitting the last fry.

To the bride and groom!

Brother to Brother

Hi everyone,

For those of you who don’t know, I’m [Your Name], [Groom]’s brother. I’ve known him my entire life — whether I wanted to or not.

Growing up with [Groom] was an adventure. He taught me how to climb trees, how to take a hit in backyard football, and how to pretend we didn’t break Mom’s vase. Through every stage of life, he’s been more than just a brother — he’s been my best friend.

And now, he has a new teammate, a new partner — someone who loves him the way we always hoped someone would.

[Bride], you are a light in his life. You’ve made him happier, stronger, and somehow even more himself. Our family is lucky to have you. And I’m proud to call you my sister.

So let’s toast to the start of something amazing. May your days be filled with laughter, patience, and the kind of love that keeps growing.

To [Bride] and [Groom].

Formal & Classy

Good evening, everyone,

My name is [Your Name], and I have the privilege of serving as [Groom]’s best man today.

It’s not every day you get to witness two people promising their forever. But seeing [Bride] and [Groom] stand side by side today — confident, calm, completely in sync — you get the feeling they were meant to find each other.

I’ve known [Groom] for years. He’s one of the most sincere people I’ve ever met — smart, kind, loyal to the core. And when he met [Bride], it was like something clicked into place. She didn’t just match him — she balanced him.

[Bride], thank you for bringing such joy into his life. You’ve added something that none of us could — a quiet strength, a deep love, and a beauty that lights up every room.

Marriage isn’t about perfection. It’s about choosing each other again and again — through good days and hard ones, through change and growth, through everything life brings.

Let’s raise our glasses to a future filled with love, laughter, and unwavering partnership.

To [Bride] and [Groom] — cheers!

The “Roast Then Toast” Speech

Ladies and gentlemen, friends, family, and that one guy nobody seems to know — good evening.

I’m [Your Name], the best man. When [Groom] asked me to be his best man, I was honored. When he told me I had to give a speech, I was less honored.

Now, I’ve known [Groom] for a long time. I’ve seen him at his best… and I’ve seen him trying to set up a tent while insisting he “doesn’t need the instructions.” So if anyone can talk about love and commitment, it’s the guy who once committed to eating 40 chicken nuggets in one sitting — and succeeded.

Then he met [Bride]. And everything changed. He suddenly started dressing better, talking about feelings, and pretending to like musicals. That’s love, folks.

[Bride], you look stunning tonight. And you clearly have terrible judgment. But you’ve made my friend happier than I’ve ever seen him — and that makes all of us happy.

Let’s raise a glass — to love, laughter, and someone finally getting [Groom] to do the dishes. Cheers!

The Self-Deprecating One

Good evening! I’m [Your Name], and I’m the best man, which means I’m the groom’s closest friend, lifelong partner in crime, and — after this speech — potentially no longer invited to family gatherings.

Now, being asked to be best man is a huge honor. It’s also a huge responsibility. I had to plan a bachelor party, hold onto the rings, and — worst of all — write a speech that’s funny, heartwarming, and under three minutes. I Googled “how to give a best man speech,” and it said: ‘Be yourself.’ So buckle up.

[Groom] and I have been friends for over [X] years. He’s loyal, funny, smart… and yet still thought cargo shorts were acceptable until, like, last year.

Then [Bride] came into the picture. She’s kind, brilliant, beautiful, and — somehow — saw potential in this human tornado.

So let’s all raise a glass — to [Bride] for taming the chaos, to [Groom] for tricking her into saying yes, and to the weird and wonderful thing called marriage. Cheers!

The Dry & Witty One

Good evening, everyone. I’m [Your Name]. I’ve been [Groom]’s friend for years, which means I’ve seen him through good times, bad decisions, and some very questionable haircuts.

When he asked me to be his best man, I thought — sure, why not ruin a perfectly good Saturday by speaking in public?

But how could I say no? He’s been like a brother to me. Which is to say — mildly annoying, always borrowing things, and impossible to get rid of.

Then came [Bride]. She’s smart, kind, gorgeous… and somehow immune to all of [Groom]’s nonsense. We were stunned.

Watching them together, though, it all makes sense. They balance each other. He brings the weird, she brings the class. It’s like peanut butter and caviar — shouldn’t work, but it does.

Let’s toast — to love, to laughter, and to [Bride] never finding [Groom]’s secret collection of graphic tees. Cheers!

The “Totally Unqualified” Best Man

Hi everyone. I’m [Your Name], and I’m here today as the best man, which is wild because I’m absolutely not qualified.

Seriously — I’ve never been married. I’ve burned water. I once tried to iron a shirt while wearing it. I am not who you turn to for wisdom.

But I am qualified to talk about [Groom]. I’ve known him for years, and in all that time, he’s been a terrible dancer, a relentless optimist, and a surprisingly good listener.

Then he met [Bride]. And suddenly this man who once thought “romantic” meant buying pizza with stuffed crust was planning cute dates, talking about feelings, and trying kale. Love is powerful, people.

[Bride], you’re brilliant, and we still don’t know what you see in him. But we’re glad you see it.

So here’s to [Groom] and [Bride] — may your life be full of joy, laughter, and Wi-Fi that never goes out during Netflix. Cheers!

The “Story Time” Speech

Ladies and gentlemen,

I want to tell you a quick story. When [Groom] and I were 22, he said to me: “Man, I’m never getting married. Too expensive. Too stressful. Too much commitment.”

Fast forward to today — he’s married, broke, stressed, and committed. So… nailed it.

But seriously, I’ve watched [Groom] grow from a guy who couldn’t keep a plant alive to someone who now shares his life, his heart, and his snacks with someone amazing.

[Bride], you’ve made him better. He’s more patient, more thoughtful, and — let’s be honest — way better dressed.

So let’s raise a glass — to true love, second chances, and [Bride] for somehow turning a guy who thought “laundry separates” meant keeping clothes off the floor into a husband.

To the happy couple!

Funny with Heart

Good evening, everyone!

I’m [Your Name], [Groom]’s brother and, as of today, the second-most important man in his life — a position I’m totally fine with losing, by the way.

Growing up with [Groom] was like living with a hurricane in human form. There were pranks, fights, broken things, and somehow, he always blamed me.

But behind the chaos was someone loyal, funny, and quietly kind. And when [Bride] came along, he leveled up. He got more patient. More thoughtful. And slightly better at texting people back.

[Bride], you’ve made my brother genuinely happy — and, even more impressive, you’ve tolerated him through group vacations and man-flu. You’re already a legend in this family.

So let’s raise a glass — to love, to marriage, and to [Bride] officially joining this circus. You’re one of us now. No takebacks. Cheers!

Sentimental and Honest

Hi everyone,

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], the best man and proud little/big brother of the groom.

I’ve had the rare privilege of watching [Groom] grow from a kid I used to fight over the TV with… into the kind of man people admire. He’s steady. He’s generous. He shows up for the people he loves — and he’s always had my back.

But today isn’t just about [Groom]. It’s about [Bride], who walked into his life and changed everything. I’ve never seen him more himself, more at peace, or more in love than he is when he’s with you.

You two are better together. You bring out the best in each other. And as his brother, that’s all I’ve ever hoped for.

To [Bride] and [Groom] — may your life be full of the same kind of unconditional love that got us both through childhood. Cheers!

Roast, Toast and Brotherly Love

Ladies and gentlemen, friends, family — and everyone who just came for the cake — good evening.

I’m [Your Name], [Groom]’s brother. Being his brother has taught me many things: patience, negotiation, and how to lose gracefully at Mario Kart.

[Groom] has always been a character — confident, stubborn, occasionally allergic to good decisions. But he’s also loyal to the core and fiercely protective of the people he loves.

Then [Bride] entered the picture. And suddenly my brother — who used to think ketchup counted as a vegetable — was meal-prepping, calling people back, and learning about throw pillows.

You’ve done the impossible, [Bride], and we are all deeply grateful.

Let’s toast to love, to laughter, and to [Bride] somehow surviving being married to our family. You’re a saint.

Cheers to the newlyweds!

Short & Sweet

Hi everyone,

I’m [Your Name], proud to be [Groom]’s brother and best man.

I’ve known [Groom] his whole life, and trust me — no one has taught me more about how to survive chaos, bad ideas, and late-night snack raids. But also, no one has taught me more about loyalty, honesty, and what it means to love without conditions.

And then [Bride] came along. And it was like watching my brother find the missing piece of who he was meant to be.

You two balance each other perfectly — and I can’t wait to see where this next chapter takes you.

To my brother and his amazing wife — may your life together be full of laughter, strength, and slightly fewer broken things than when we were kids. Cheers!

Emotional and Personal

Good evening,

For those who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], the groom’s brother — though I’ve always considered him one of my best friends too.

Growing up, [Groom] was the one who taught me how to ride a bike, how to throw a punch (mostly in his direction), and how to stand up for the people you care about. He’s always had this huge heart — sometimes buried under sarcasm — but always there.

When he met [Bride], something changed. Or maybe it clicked into place. He became more… him. Softer in the right ways, stronger in others. That’s what love does.

[Bride], thank you for seeing him the way we always have — and for loving him through all the chaos. You’re exactly who he needed, and exactly who we didn’t know we were waiting for.

So here’s to two amazing people, and the beautiful life they’re building.

To [Bride] and [Groom]. With all my love — cheers.

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